G for G-Spot

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GspotAaah the G-Spot .. the Holy Grail of female pleasure … that oh-so-sensitive-spot that (when found) will leave a woman flushed, weak in her knees and gasping for air … and yes you will be rewarded for hitting that spot ! 


Finding The G-Spot

Gentleman, take note that the G-spot is easiest to locate when a woman is sexually aroused.  This is why foreplay is SO important !!  Once you have mastered the art of foreplay, it’s time to focus your attention on the finding the G-Spot.    Whilst your partner is lying on her back  and you are facing her; insert your index or middle finger into her vagina as far as it will easily go.   Your finger will naturally curve along the inside of her vagina, and you do this  "come here" motion, sliding your fingertip along the top of the vagina until you find an area that is rougher than the rest of that vaginal wall.   This rough or slightly ridged area (think about how the roof of your mouth feels)  is the "G-spot”.   The more aroused a woman is; the easier it is to locate the G-Spot because it fill with fluid, making it swell and become larger 


The Big O

Women can experience two types of orgasms : a clitoral orgasm and a vaginal orgasm.  Almost every woman has had a clitoral orgasm.  God bless the first man that performed cunnilingus on a woman (how did he even think to do that? it must have been animal instinct).  Not every woman can achieve a super intense vaginal orgasm.  My theory is that there is a vaginal orgasm (which most of us women can experience) – that gush of tingles all over our body during sex; and then there is the vaginal squirting orgasm where women experience an ejaculation just like men.  Now THAT’s the G-Spot Orgasm I’m talking about !!  Personally, I find that a G-Spot orgasm is deeper and longer lasting than a clitoral orgasm; it feels like micro explosions all over my body and if done right, it can be multiple times. 


The Catch-22 with a G-Spot orgasm is that it’s almost impossible to have one when you are tightening and tensing your vaginal muscles; which is almost exactly the same time when you are about to orgasm.  So you must RELAX and just surrender to the experience (even if it feels like you have to pee !!).  It also means you have to feel comfortable with yourself and your partner.  The last thing you want to be worrying about mid-orgasm is ‘OMG what if pee’.  You’re not going to.  Any fluid coming out of you is all a part of the female ejaculation. 


Guys, there’s a reason why some women have difficulty achieving a G-spot orgasm – they are so damn conscious about what’s going on that they forget to let go and enjoy the ride. So gentleman, your job at this stage is to make her stay on course !!  Talk to your partner, tell her how much it turns you on to see her reaching orgasm; tell her how much you want her to explode over your fingers (or your cock) – not only will this subtle domination turn her on – it’ll take her mind of other things and help her achieve her orgasm.

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Practice makes perfect, and that's especially true when it comes to stimulating the G-spot.  The more you stimulate it and incorporate it into your sex repertoire, the easier it'll be to reach the stage of G-spot nirvana.


So my question to the men and women out there is : have you found the G-spot ?  How would you describe your G-Spot orgasm ? Guys, have you made a woman squirt ? Ladies, have you squirted ?  Any bedroom pleasure tales to share ?


Diva’s Tips:

  • Guys, keep your fingernails short and filed.  You don’t want to end up scratching her !!
  • Use just the tip of your finger to tap firmly and repeatedly on your G-spot … you’d be surprised at how your partner reacts to that !
  • If at first you don’t succeed, try again (and again and again) … every woman’s body is different !
  • Ladies, repeated Kegel exercises will help deepen the sensations from a G-spot orgasm